A message from Clive McFarland
Written by Clive McFarland
Remember, You Are Still Unemployed.
When one door is closed another is opened.
I am not speaking of the privilege afforded the politically connected, those who can leave one job voluntarily or involuntarily and get another without a break in their employment status.
I am speaking of the attitude I embraced when after 27 years working for Worcester Telegram & Gazette, I was deemed expendable.
It was a wonderful job, and not just because I cherished the media’s role in protecting our constitutional republic, but because I was also fascinated by the stories of regular people who through their life experiences constantly affirmed our capacity to live heroic lives.
I still cling to those stories. They continue to counteract the crassness of the times and reaffirm our capacity to be better than we are at the moment.
The stories I wrote about ordinary people overcoming personal and physical challenges, people dedicating a lifetime to community service; people fighting unrelentingly on behalf the most vulnerable among us; people putting their lives on the line to protect our democracy kept at bay my creeping cynicism about who we are as a country and a community.
And if there is a recurring theme in all those stories, it is that life’s setbacks are potential opportunities for physical and mental growth, and even a new awakening. But that growth and awakening require reflection and for most laid-off American workers, particularly older workers, three is seldom time for that.
To continue making ends meet, the laid off worker must find a job first and reflect later.
Older workers are not exempted from this work grind. Many are being forced to work well beyond traditional retirement years.
This was why my adventurous side’s attitude that “when one door is closed another is opened” was quickly challenged by my practical side.
“Sure,” it said.
“Another door might be opened, but you need to find it fast. Remember, you’ve got to think about getting medical coverage, or you might be paying a healthcare fee at the end of year.
“Remember you still have your children tuition and other bills to pay. And you know you will have to fork up some serious dough, if you intend to keep your life insurance plan.”
I really had no time to manage the psychological impact of transitioning from the workforce to the unemployment line, according to my practical side, no time for the simple pleasures I had always enjoyed.
Every time I picked up a book or my guitar, thought about visiting my local watering hole, watching a movie or going to the park, my practical side would whisper in my ear, “Remember, you are still unemployed.”
But that was the side of me that had worked some 38-plus continuous years being unaccustomed and uncomfortable with my laid-off status. So I tuned it out, took time to reflect, and in the end decided that doing what I have been doing all these years– telling my community’s stories–was the most practical path forward.
So, here I am.
Hello again, friends.
Clive
Clive can be found at Woostachat.com
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Worcester Unit, NAACP
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Worcester, MA 01613
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